小孩不笨
刚刚看了小孩不笨，看了有许多感触...dunno why, maybe because im abit overloaded by work, both my work life and family life is goin out of balance...
probably because of stress im neglecting the ppl ard me, im neglecting those who need my help.
may from yongen has called me a few times but i havnt gone to yongen to help. this isnt good, this isnt what i should do.
i have always believed in equality and give unconditionally to everyone ard me. but this society just doesnt exactly accept unconditional givings... since im the welfare ic i tink its my job to make everyone in the company happy. besides being my job, i treat it as something that i do from my heart. but ppl just dun appreciate it. they even find it "weird".
this society has its flaws... and i dun tink its beneficial to the human development of it... it just doesnt seem rite. when u give someone something, e.g. a gift, instead of saying "thank you" and accpeting the gift happily, the person may say "you treat me so well, what do u want from me?"
i mean what heck, i just do it out of my kindness, my care, and what i tink i should do, but its like ppl just take it i wanna get sth out of it... its really hard to do things...
i wanna treat everyone as peers, i dun address myself as a superior in front of my subordinates. my principle is that by chance im ur superior, but it doesnt mean im better than u. im in a commander position doesnt mean im superior to u. it simply means we have different capabilities. and if we can coordinate and cooperate well, i dun see the point in having rankings. when we have things to do, lets do it at a peer to peer level, u do ur job, i do mine, simple and we are all good. i hope my subordinates will understand, u r learning, im learning, lets learn together and get things done, harmoniously...
all the best for the new year...
posted by Leo @ 1:15 AM
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